Backslider or Frontslider – Part 2, by Deacon Mike Ben

The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways, and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.”  Proverbs 14:14

Continued from last week.

Last week, we looked at the background of the subject and few examples that should humble us and teach us that even the mightiest of God’s saints sometimes backslide, fall into sin, and so lose the sweet joy that every Christian ought to have.

It is worthy to note there are some people in the Bible who did not backslide. For example, Adam, when he fell into sin in the Garden of Eden, was not a backslider. He had never been born again. He had never been saved and so could not backslide. In the Garden of Eden he had been created a perfect man and had perfect fellowship with God as one of His creatures, made in His image. But, he had not been redeemed by blood. Up to that time in the Bible, blood had never been mentioned as a remedy for sin. There had never been an animal sacrifice picturing the coming of the Saviour. There had never been a gospel message nor any need of one. There had never been a prophecy of the coming Saviour.

Adam, as a sinless being in the Garden of Eden, like Eve his wife, was not a Christian. He was simply a perfect man, as she was a perfect woman. When Adam fell into sin and ate the forbidden fruit, he was not a backslider. He was, for the first time, a poor lost sinner who had never been converted, who had never been born into God’s family, who had never been born again, who had never been redeemed by the blood.

And so fallen angels are not backsliders. Angels in Heaven are perfect and sinless and have fellowship with God, but they are not Christians. Angels, who have never been saved and given everlasting life as forgiven sinners, cannot backslide.

Judas Iscariot was not a backslider. In John 6:64, 70, 71 we are told that Judas did not believe in Christ, was not saved but was a devil.

“But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him … Jesus answered them, Have not I chosen you twelve, and one of you is a devil? He spake of Judas Iscariot the son of Simon: for he it was that should betray him, being one of the twelve.”  

Judas heard the preaching of Jesus but never repented. He was a moral man who evidently depended on his morality and would not turn to Jesus in saving faith. At last, he fell into grossest sin and betrayed Jesus for thirty pieces of silver. But Judas was not a backslider. No one can be a backslider who has not first been a “frontslider.” Only Christians, born again children of God, could backslide.

Strange as it may seem, all Christians backslide, for all Christians sin. In I John 1:8 we are told, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.” Every Christian is taught to pray daily in the Lord’s Prayer (that model prayer for all who can look up in the face of God and call Him, “Our Father which art in heaven”), “And forgive us our sins” (Luke 11:4). All Christians sin, and that means that all Christians backslide.

When you remember that “the thought of foolishness is sin” (Prov. 24:9), that “whatsoever is not of faith is sin” (Rom. 14:23), that “to him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin” (Jas. 4:17), then it becomes clear that all of us have fallen short even after we are saved. We have all had foolish thoughts; we have all done some things without any special faith about them; we have all left undone things that we knew were proper and right for us to do. Who will say that every minute of your life you have loved God all you ought to, that you never pray a second less than you ought to pray, that you never leave undone a single thing that God wants you to do? You cannot say that; neither can I. And that is proof of sin.

Christians grow old. Our teeth decay, our hair turns gray or falls out, we grow decrepit in body, and finally even Christians die. That proves that Christians are sinners. For everywhere in the Bible we are told that death is the result of sin.

Adam was warned that if he sinned, “thou shalt surely die” (Gen. 2:17). James 1:15 says that “sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.” Ezekiel 18:4 says that “the soul that sinneth, it shall die.” Romans 6:23 plainly says that “the wages of sin is death.”

Oh, we Christians are yet frail sinners; so it is clear that all Christians backslide. And that is the reason why God must save us by grace and keep us by grace. We did not earn salvation, and we cannot keep it. We did not deserve it when we got it, and we do not deserve it now.  It is a pity that most Christians are taking the Grace of God for granted.

Brethren, will you test yourself by this simple rule? Was there ever a time when you were nearer to God than you are now? Was there ever a time when you read the Bible more, or enjoyed it more than now? Was there ever a time when you prayed more, when you had your prayers answered more frequently? Was there ever a day when you won more souls than you have won today? Was there ever a time when you were more completely absorbed in the Lord’s business? If there was ever a time when you were nearer the Lord than today, you are a backslider. You have slid back from that close intimacy with God, from that high place of blessing which you once had.

Remember that our text in Proverbs 14:14 says, “The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own ways.” Backsliding is not necessarily getting drunk nor committing adultery, nor any outward course of sin seen by the public. Backsliding is in the heart!

Next week we shall consider what Backsliding looks like

God bless you real good.

Deacon Mike Ben




EXECELLENT SPIRIT – Develop an excellent spirit, Part 2, by Deacon Wole Bodunde

Bible Text: Daniel 1:1-16, Daniel 5:11-12, Daniel 6:3.

Prayer Point: Lord, make me what you want me to be so that I can produce what you want me to produce.

In part one of this series, we gave an insight to what excellent spirit is in reference to Daniel. Excellent is not a destination. It is a state of mind, a life style. To be excellent is to be the best among the best. It means condition of being extra-ordinary, more than best, something that can’t be faulted.

And before you can become excellent, you must have the spirit.

  • Daniel was preferred above presidents because of this spirit.  Dan. 6:3.
  • The traceable godly spirits that Daniel possessed include: Holy Spirit like Paul; Full of knowledge, great understanding of time like men of Issachar- I Chro. 12:32; Spirit of purpose like Esther that refused to be defiled- Esther 2:7, 17; defending the purpose of God for his life like Joseph who refused to do evil against God when tempted- Gen. 39:7-9.

All these summed together made him to exploit his generation, but not without facing challenges.

Challenges faced by Daniel (caused by Unexpected Change)

  • Daniel was taken away into captivity from his parents. Unexpected change bends us out of shape especially when they are interfering with the general peace and security of our families.
  • Confronted with drugs, sex, absorption, violence and even pornography in our society, including our public schools, we get angry, depressed and confused.
  • We supposed that unhappy changes in our world violated our rights and just were not supposed to happen.
  • This is not in the case of Daniel. He was forcefully uprooted from his parents and home land. He did not panic. Yet he did not cease to be godly.
  • In a situation that could produce bitterness, he did not become an angry man, all because he has been taught to honour God and trust him.
  • Godly training at home remains the key factor for producing fruitful Christian in a Christian world.

  Qualities of Daniel

  • Daniel was good looking, gifted and smart. He was handpicked by Babylonia for a unique educational programme.
  • He was trained in Babylonia but not by Babylonian.
  • He was not absorbed into their culture and became one of the faceless cronies.
  • Daniel’s home training for God could not be erased by his subsequent training.

Just say ‘no’ gracefully- I Cor. 6:17-20

  • Daniel’s next crisis came wrapped in attractive package. His special training programme included wine and delicacies.
  • Daniel could not have easily found several good reasons for saying ‘yes’ to this. The king expected it, others were doing it and it would taste good. How about your being lured to ungodly things.
  • There was only one reason for saying ‘NO’ – it would defile him in the sight of God. (Many of our youths had lost their virginity years back).
  • Daniel said ‘no’ but in a worrisome way.

Fuel for ego

  • Temptation can come in all shapes and sizes and from any direction. In fact, our very victories can trip us if we become over confidence or proud.
  • Daniel knew this – Dan. 1:17-19
  • Daniel and his friends did not abuse the success and abilities God gave them by taking off an ego trip. (How are you using your talents)

What made Daniel Excellent?

  • He purposed. Dan. 1:8-11. You need to determine what you will do.
  • He had excellent spirit. Dan. 5:11-12.



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Backslider or Frontslider, Part one, by Deacon Mike Ben

The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways, and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.” Proverbs 14:14

Last week, we learnt about “Four Vital Elements to Spiritual Growth”. Today, we shall focus on a Backslider. May the Holy Spirit minister to you in Jesus Name.

Are you a backslider or Frontslider? Can you compare your spiritual state now with that when you were first saved? Have the services of the church lost their delights in you? Examine your life if backslidden condition probably exists.

What is Backsliding?

Backsliding is when a person who follows Christ turns away from Him. To the backslider, God is no longer the main focus of his life. Without God’s leading, the person suffers a lapse morally and reverts back to sin. He “backslides” into his old way of life. The backslider is one who has forgotten the grace of repentance.  To say it simply, a backslidden Christian is one whose communion with Christ is waning and whose faith is weakening. The Christian life is not always an easy road. Sometimes we get off track. The Bible says to encourage your brothers and sisters in Christ daily so that no one turns away from the living God. If you have found yourself backsliding, or drifting away from the Lord, these practical steps mentioned below will help get you back on course today.

A backslider is a saved person who falls into sin. A lost sinner cannot be a backslider. You have to go somewhere before you can slide back. But someone who is truly born again, a child of God who falls into sin, is a backslider. It may be outrageous and gross sin known to everyone or it may be merely coldness of heart, a lukewarmness of heart instead of the burning fire of love for God. But when a Christian loses any of his joy, or loses part of his sweet fellowship with God, or falls into sin, then he is a backslider. Remember that only Christians can backslide.

We have many examples of this in the Bible. What an honest Book the Bible is to tell us of the failures and sins of God’s people through the ages! God wanted us to know that the men of the greatest faith, saints who had truly been born again, were frail people such as we are and subject to the same temptations and surrendering sometimes to the same sins.

God tells how Noah got drunk and lay naked in his tent. He tells how Lot sought the fellowship of the wicked Sodomites, lost all his influence, got drunk and ruined his own daughters. The Bible tells how Abraham deceived, calling Sarah his sister. Even saintly Moses lost his temper. When God commanded him to speak to the rock that Israel might be watered from it a second time, in a temper he beat upon it with his rod and so dishonored God that he lost his chance to enter the Promised Land.

David, a man after God’s own heart, a man used to write the Psalms, that blessed book of devotions for the saints through all these centuries, committed adultery with Bathsheba and then had her husband Uriah slain to hide his sin. The Bible tells how Samson, a judge of Israel who had been filled with the Holy Ghost and was a Nazarite from his birth, kept company with harlots until God left him powerless, a slave of the Philistines with his eyes burned out.

The Bible tells how Peter denied Christ and cursed and swore, how all the disciples forsook Jesus and fled; how later Peter, fearing the Jewish Christians, played the coward again, and led even good Barnabas away with his dissimulations. The Bible tells how Joseph of Arimathea, a disciple of Jesus, was a coward, a secret disciple. Even Paul the apostle went up to Jerusalem against the plain leading of the Holy Spirit.

So the saints of the Bible fell into sin. They were backsliders.

These examples should humble us and teach us that even the mightiest of God’s saints sometimes backslide, fall into sin, and so lose the sweet joy that every Christian ought to have.

A Christian who backslides is like a child who disobeys his parents. It does not affect his sonship but it affects his fellowship, his joy, and the approval of the Father.

To be continued next week

God bless you real good.

Deacon Mike Ben




Our mid-week services resume this week on Tuesday, 17th December 2013

Please, note that our mid-week services resume this week on Tuesday, 17th December 2013, with Digging Deep. Digging Deep is a weekly deep Bible Study series of RCCG Miracle Centre. The topic of this week digging deep is: By their fruits – three basic assurances.




Thanks and appreciation from the Zonal Pastor

The Zonal Pastor of RCCG Miracle Centre, Pastor Dele Ikotun, expresses his thanks and appreciation to all parish and non-parish members for their support and participation during his son’s wedding on 14th December 2013




BY THEIR FRUITS: FORGIVENESS PART 2, 31st Dec 2013

Bible Text: Matt. 18:23-35

INTRODUCTION

In our previous study on the same subject, we examined the biblical meaning of forgiveness and the two kinds of forgiveness. This study will be on how to know that we have really forgiven somebody and the consequences of un-forgiveness.

1. ACID-TEST OF FORGIVENESS

  • No bitterness or hard feelings – (Eph 4:31-32)
  • No malice or revenge or hatred (I Pet. 3:9, (I Pet. 2:1; I Cor. 4:12-13)
  • Acceptance and restoration to his or her former position (Lk. 15:11-24, 31-32; Rom. 12:18)
  • Renewed and vibrant relationship or dealings after the conflict has been resolved – Prov. 25:21; Gen. 3:1-9

2. THE PRICE OF UN-FORGIVENESS – Matt. 18:28-35

  • It will cost you your relationship, first with God, and then with your fellow men.
  • It can affect your health and your wealth – Matt. 18:34
  • Can you mention any other consequences?

CONCLUSION

Un-forgiveness will always open an unlimited door to Satan to afflict a believer. The most serious among all the consequences is that it can lead to sudden death and eventually block one’s way to heaven. Is there anybody you are holding in your heart? Do you need to pay a debt of forgiveness to anyone? Pray now, run to him (if you need to), repent towards God and then towards your brother and have your peace in Jesus name.

 MEMORY VERSE: Eph. 4:31-32




BY THEIR FRUITS: FORGIVENESS PART 1, 24th Dec 2013

Bible Text: Matt. 18:23-35

INTRODUCTION

The expectation of God concerning us after we have been saved and set free from sin is to bear fruit. Forgiveness is an aspect of our fruitfulness as Christians. One thing that will keep many people, including spirit-filled believers out of heaven is the sin of un-forgiveness. The sin of un-forgiveness is one of those terrible sins that many Christians still indulge in, even after they might have received forgiveness for their own sins.

1.      WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?

  • To Pardon, or show mercy to somebody; no longer having hard feelings towards an offender, to no longer have the wish to punish somebody for an offence committed or to no longer demand repayment of a debt. (Advance leaner’s dictionary)
  • In the original Greek text, forgiveness means: To ‘release’, to ‘send away’, or to ‘let go’. It is a word often used in relation to ‘debt’. – Matt. 6:11-15

2. THE PRICE OF UN-FORGIVENESS

There are two kinds of forgiveness in the Bible.

2.1  FORGIVENESS OF AN UNBELIEVER

  • Forgiveness of an Unbeliever – Lk. 7:40-47 when an unbeliever offends us, whether he acknowledges it or not, we are commanded in the Bible to forgive him or her. Why? (Lk. 23:34)
  • How many times are we to forgive them? (Matt. 28:21-22).

 2.2  FORGIVENESS OF A CHRISTIAN BROTHER/SISTER

Steps necessary

  • Loving confrontation (Lk. 17:1-4; Matt. 18:15-17). Why does God ask believers to confront one another? Loving confrontation demands wisdom as to the appropriate time and appropriate method so that the matter does not escalate.
  • Loving repentance (James 5:16). What is repentance? How can we genuinely repent?
  • Loving release (Lk. 17:14; Rom. 13:8; I Cor. 13:5)

CONCLUSION

Whichever way, the Bible says, offences must always come. When offences come, God expects us to be quick to forgive whether the person(s) concerned acknowledge(s) it or not. This will save a lot of the agonizing consequences of un-forgiveness. ‘Let’s bow down our heads now and pray’.

 MEMORY VERSE: Luke 17:4




BY THEIR FRUITS: THREE BASIC ASSURANCES, 17th Dec 2013

Bible Text: I John 5:11-12

INTRODUCTION

In this study, we shall be examining the scripture on the three basic assurances viz: Assurance of Salvation, Victory and Forgiveness of sins. This is necessary in order to enable us grasp the full implication of our decision to live our lives for Christ. As we go through these studies, it is God’s expectation that our lives be transformed unto becoming like Christ.

1. ASSURANCE OF SALVATION

1.1  Who is sure that if he/she dies today that he/she will go to heaven?

1.2  Who out of us will like to share what he/she experienced in his/her life since receiving Jesus Christ?

  • Read I John 5:11-12 and answer the following questions:

(a)   Who gives eternal life? ………………………………………………………….

(b)   Where is eternal life found? ………………………………………………

(c)    Who has eternal life? …………………………………………………………….

  • In I Pet. 3:18, how did book of Peter explain what God has done to bring men to himself? Christ suffered for our sins.
  • How did you receive the gift of salvation? I John 1:8-9, John 1:12
  • (i) What will happen to whosoever rejects the gift of Salvation? Rev. 21:8; Rev 20:15; Lk. 9:26, and (ii) Who has saved you from eternal death? John 10:28-30
  • Who can undo what God has done? Isa. 43:13; John 10:27-29

2. THE ASSURANCE OF FORGIVENESS

  • Read I John 1:9; Dan. 9:9; Ps. 51:7

(a) What does God want you to do about your sins?

(b) What does it mean to confess?

(c)  In His act of forgiveness, how is God described?

  • Can you think of any sin you have not confessed to God?
  • If so, take a few moments to confess and thank God for his gracious and complete forgiveness. Read Prov. 28:13; Ps. 139:23-24. When you have accepted, confessed, repented and forsaken your sins, the Bible says the blood of Jesus will cleanse you from all unrighteousness – I John 1:7. After then, as far as God is concerned, it is as if you have never sinned before. Read 2 Cor. 5:17; Isa. 43:25. By your decision, you now have victory over sin through Jesus Christ. Gal. 2:20 & Rom. 6:13-14

Chorus:

Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound

That saved a wretch like me

I once was lost, but now I’m found

Was blind but now I see

3. THE ASSURANCE OF VICTORY

3.1  Read Rom. 8:2-3, Eph. 6:12, I Cor. 10:13

  • What is true about every temptation?
  • Who can give you victory when you are tempted?
  • Does God remove temptation?
  • What will God provide?

Experiencing victory over sin is a special thing to those who have determined to live a holy life by faith (1 Pet. 1:16). Are you determined to live a holy life by faith?

The Three Areas: Gal. 5:9, 21; Matt. 15:19-20; Eph. 6:11-12                              

Jesus Remedy for Victory: Isa. 53:5; Ps. 32:1-2; I Tim. 2:5-6     

Strategy of overcoming sin: Eph. 6:11; Phil. 4:8; 2 Cor. 2:14

3.2 What is the Holy Spirit’s control?

3.3 Why is the Holy Spirit given? Rom. 8:26; John 14:26

3.4 How does the Holy Spirit help us and how do I experience this control? Gal. 5:22-23; Rom. 12:1-2; Eph. 4:30

3.5  What do you need to do in order for the Holy Spirit’s ministry to be effective in your battle with sin? Eph. 6:17; Eph. 5:18

CONCLUSION

There is definite assurance of salvation, forgiveness and victory over sin for every child of God. Are you fully assured of all these? Pray now.

MEMORY VERSE: 1 Cor. 10:12-13




Four Vital Elements to Spiritual Growth, by Deacon Mike Ben

Are you a brand new follower of Christ, wondering where to get started on your journey? Here are 4 vital elements to move you forward toward spiritual growth. Though simple, they are vital to building your relationship with the Lord.

Step 1 – Read your Bible daily. Find a Bible reading plan that’s right for you. A plan will keep you from missing anything God has written in His Word. Also, if you follow the plan, you’ll be on your way to reading through the Bible once every year! The easiest way to truly “grow up” in the faith is to make Bible reading a priority.

Step 2 – Meet together with other believers regularly. The reason we attend church or gather with other believers regularly (Hebrews 10:25) is for teaching, fellowship, worship, communion, prayer and to build one another up in the faith (Acts 2:42-47). Participating in the body of Christ is fundamental to spiritual growth.

Step 3 – Get involved in a ministry group. Most churches offer small groups and many ministry opportunities. Pray and ask God where you should “plug in.” It’s the people who really “get plugged in” that find their purpose and soar in their walk with Christ. Sometimes this takes a little time, but most churches offer classes or counseling to help you find the place that’s right for you. Don’t get discouraged if the first thing you try doesn’t seem to fit.

Step 4 – Pray daily. Prayer is simply talking to God. You don’t have to use big fancy words. There are no right and wrong words. Just be yourself. Give thanks to the Lord daily for your salvation. Pray for others in need. Pray for direction. Pray for the Lord to fill you daily with His Holy Spirit. There is no limit to prayer. You can pray with your eyes closed or open, while sitting or standing, kneeling or lying on your bed, anywhere, anytime. So begin to make prayer a part of your daily routine.

Deacon Mike Ben